Maggie Steffens, captain of the U.S. water polo team, is facing a profound personal challenge at the Paris Olympics.
According to CBS News, the death of her sister-in-law, Lulu Conner, just days before the Games commenced, casts a shadow over her Olympic journey.
Lulu Conner, only 26, passed suddenly in Paris where she went to support Steffens. The family cites a medical emergency as the cause, with fuller details still pending. Conner's unexpected death deeply affected Steffens and her extended family, already gathered to cheer her on.
Maggie Steffens displayed deep emotional ties to Conner, recalling her joyful nature and ability to bring people together. During the opening ceremony, Steffens honored her sister-in-law's memory by releasing a bouquet into the Seine River, a poignant tribute amidst the festivity.
In her recent play, Maggie Steffens scored twice, contributing to the U.S. team's 15-6 victory over Greece. Beyond her grief, Steffens's performance has been remarkable, solidifying her place as the top-scoring woman in Olympic water polo history with 58 goals.
Lulu Conner was not only a significant support figure for Steffens but was also an artist and a graduate of UC Davis. She had crafted a creative tribute to Flavor Flav’s iconic clock for Steffens, symbolizing her enthusiastic support for the U.S. Water Polo team.
Following her performance, Maggie Steffens shared reflections on playing despite her loss. She emphasized trying to embody Conner’s spirited dedication in her own Olympic endeavors.
It definitely helps to play. I'm so out of body right now, and I just keep reminding myself what Lulu would want, how she would be. How can I embody her spirit the best? Lulu always gave 150% in everything she did.
Adam Krikorian, coach of the U.S. water polo team, echoed the emotional strain, drawing parallels to his loss during the 2016 Olympics. He highlighted the importance of providing support and space for Steffens during this challenging period.
Steffens recognized the substantial support from her teammates during this trying time. The entire team rallied around her, providing comfort as they navigated the emotional hurdles of competing in the Olympics while coping with profound grief.
Maggie Steffens elaborated on her emotional state and the support she has received:
It's going to be a really hard couple weeks for all of us. My team has been a really big support system for me. I'm struggling, my husband as well, and his family. It's a nightmare, and it's completely shocking. But feeling her spirit here is amazing, and I hope we can make her proud every single day.
Coach Krikorian stressed the importance of support during such times, advocating for patience and understanding as Steffens and her family cope with their loss.
As the Olympics continue, Maggie Steffens aims to honor Lulu Conner's memory through her performance. Despite the emotional challenges, Steffens and the U.S. water polo team press on, carrying with them the spirit of a beloved family member and the collective support of their peers and loved ones.
